function blurAnchors(){
if(document.getElementsByTagName) {
var a = document.getElementsByTagName("a");
//collect all anchors A
for(var i = 0; i < a.length; i++){
// mouse onfocus, blur anchors
a[i].onfocus = function(){this.blur();};
}
}
}

window.onload = blurAnchors;

$(document).ready(function(){
var validator = $("#kontakt").validate({
rules: {
'imienazwisko' : "required",
'email' : { required: true, email: true },
'message': "required"
},
messages: {
'imienazwisko'  : "",
'email'  : "",
'message': ""
}
});
});